Lesson Planning



*As I sat down today to begin planning out the school year ahead, the Lord brought to mind a post I had written last year around this time. I'm thankful for this gentle reminder, because what He was showing me and teaching me last year ministered to my heart again and inspired my lesson planning...again. And so, I share it with you...again.*

As I sit here listening to the cool breeze move peacefully through the trees in my yard. With many school books laid out before me, I am thinking through what this upcoming year will bring as I strive to teach my daughters about the world around them. I think of many things I hope to accomplish from my joyful and intentional efforts and labor on their behalf. I hope (and pray) that they may grow up into women who contribute something beautiful to this world. That they may be well-equipped to choose wisely how they desire to use her gifts and knowledge for purposes beyond themselves. That they would choose to seek grace and mercy over greed and fame. That they would desire wisdom and seek after it, rather than follow the way of fools.

As I look through these books which contain an immense amount of interesting and exciting information within them, I am reminded of the study that I'm currently going through in Proverbs. I am sweetly reminded that there is one thing that precedes all of this useful and important information; the one thing we ought to teach our children that is above all else (as it is the foundation for all else) is: the fear of the Lord.

My daughter is a very bright girl. She is advanced in learning. She is only five years old and is entering 2nd grade level reading. She is eager to learn, and she absorbs information like a dry and thirsty sponge. I'm thankful for this - it is indeed a gift from God.

With knowledge my daughter can do much good for this world. With it she has the potential for great and wonderful things. She has a beautiful wide-open future laid out before her - what she will do with it is yet to be discovered! She has only to open her eyes and attend her ears to learning - endless opportunities await such a young life! And I get giddy thinking of all the possibilities, and I look forward to watching her grow and develop into the woman God has created her to be!

But knowledge is a tricky thing. Mere knowledge alone has the potential for harm.With only knowledge, my daughter also has the potential for great and terrible things. Knowledge without wisdom can be dangerous ground - it can cause lots of problems. It is often times careless and full of pride. It seems that knowledge is at its best and most beneficial when it is accompanied by wisdom, prudence and discretion. Wisdom gives guidance and direction to the intellect, it gives ability to think through things rather than simply knowing the facts. Wisdom is discerning. Wisdom is honorable. So above, as well as, alongside obtaining knowledge, I want to teach and train my children to seek wisdom; to know how to accurately handle and utilize knowledge. And to do so in a way, that it is a gift and blessing to those they meet (not as a demeaning or arrogant slap in the face). I desire to teach them that there is a purpose for obtaining knowledge; that its not simply to become smart (or the smartest!)...there is a specific reason for it (as there is one reason and purpose for all things) - the glory of God.

We are encouraged over and over again in God's Word to pursue knowledge (the book of Proverbs is jam packed with exhortations to flee folly and seek wisdom and knowledge), and so I am joyfully embarking on the journey to teach my daughters all that I can about this world - the world that our God has created. Science, Math, Languages, History, Geography, Astronomy, Chemistry...they all point to HIM - the One who made and rules over it all. There is not a thing on this earth that doesn't point back to His glorious Presence. Each tree, each creature, each drop of rain, each piece of technology built by the minds that He created - all of it declares His glory!

That is my lesson plan for this year and the years ahead. Whether I am still homeschooling my children, or if they are attending public school - that is my job - to teach them and point them to their Creator! To point them to the One who made them and loves them. That He is far greater than we could ever have even imagined and that He is amazing (just look at the stars, the vast oceans, the different species of animals and plants!). I'm excited to see my daughter's eyes sparkle at the name of Jesus (because He is that wonderful!). I'm excited to pour my life into their's so that they may recognize that every moment breathes out His beauty. I'm excited (and greatly humbled) that I've been entrusted by God to carry such an enormous, yet simple, responsibility - and I won't take it lightly.

As I teach them these blessed and wonderful truths, I want to be displaying for them and training them how to respond to such a powerful and loving God. To revere Him, to fall before Him with adoration and a humble heart, to serve Him joyfully and willingly - to fear Him. And from there, from the posture of humility and joyful submission, that is where true wisdom will come. That is when their knowledge (and mine) will flourish and be used best. That is when knowledge becomes a useful tool rather than an opportunity for boasting. That is when our labor for learning will overflow into blessings on others, and all this for the glory of God.

Where it begins:
"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding." Proverbs 9:10.

Where it ends:
"The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person." Ecclesiastes 12:13

What kind of woman is to be praised:
"Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her the product of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates." Proverbs 31:31

Living in the I-Don't-Knows

{If you have known me even for a short time overseas, then you know I don't like to talk about my health, despite being a glaring issue...but it is still a reality for me, so I'm finally writing about it.}

We all have those areas in our life that we don't fully understand. Places the Lord chooses to take us that seem unpleasant, painful, and without reason. Or the path that He chooses to take us on seems unfair and seemingly fruitless. These are often the things that we pray over and over about and never quite seem to get a clear and direct answer. Whether it be an estranged relationship, illness, or some other painful experience - it's just difficult. In my life, it is health.

Why have I been sick ever since the first week I arrived in Indonesia? Why can't food stay in my body? Why does the effects of it have to effect my daily life and limit my ability to do many things? And why does my husband have to suffer with Crohn's Disease? Why?

I don't know. 

I know that my God loves me as His own child, so why doesn't He just heal me and my husband? I don't know. I don't have the answer. If I did, then it would make it easier...maybe.

Despite the countless opportunities I have to ask these questions, the I don't knows have their boundaries in my heart and mind. I only allow it to go so far before I choose to boldly preach the truth to myself. Because I DO know some things for certain. "For the LORD God is a sun and shield; the LORD gives grace and glory; no good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly." Psalm 84:11. God is doing something good in my life with this, He has promised to do so (Romans 8:28). This is true whether or not I can see the results from my limited temporal view. This truth was vividly illustrated for us several years ago when my oldest was two years old. We and another dear family were having so much fun hanging out and playing together that we all decided to move the fun to Chuck E Cheese's. So, we interrupted our little ones play and began to put their shoes on them. We explained to our daughter that we were going to a super fun place with her friend. As we began to pile into two separate cars (our family in one and their family in another), our daughter lost it! She began to cry hysterically and said she wanted to continue playing with her friend. Though we repeatedly tried to explain what was happening (that she'd see her in less than 5 minutes), she was absolutely inconsolable! She did not understand. If she were to be asked what we were doing, her answer would most certainly have been (in a very loud toddler-like scream), "I don't know, and I don't like it!" 

We, as her parents, knew where we were going; we knew the joy that lay ahead. We had our daughter's joy in mind, even if the temporary parting with her friend caused a bit of sadness that she didn't understand, we knew it would only be short-lived. What was amazing was when we pulled into parking lot and opened the car door, the two little girls' eyes met and were overwhelmed with joy - a greater joy than they previously experienced. The pain and sorrow my little girl had just felt had since disappeared. There was a reason for the "suffering," and an end to the confusion from it.

This is true for us in our relationship with God. God is a loving Father. He cares deeply for His children. But there are times, in love, that we are temporarily separated from what appears best and good for us in order that what is truly best and good for us will come to fruition. Sometimes it will be confusing, and we will find ourselves uttering the hopeless "I don't know," but it doesn't have to be hopeless: "Behold, I go forward but He is not there, and backward, but I cannot perceive Him; when He acts on the left, I cannot behold Him; He turns on the right I cannot see Him. But He knows the way I take; when He has tried me, I shall come forth as gold." Job 23:8-10.

The end result with our God is always our good and His great glory.

"In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ." 1 Peter 1:6-7. 

I have come to realize that I don't need to know the reasons for each of my particular circumstances, I may not know until later. But what I can and do know is Him who is my All in All - God. And in Him I will trust and take refuge...even in the midst of the I don't knows

Summer Days


There is just something magical about a water hose on a hot day.

Slow Down


Words were flying at me at a mile a minute. My feet hadn't even touched the floor yet from the night's sleep. Both girls were up early and at my bedside pleading their case as to which one was in the wrong. "Slow down" was my reply to them. "Slow down" was my reply to me.

I remember these wise words coming from my mentor (who is now a very dear and close friend) many years ago. Something she would remind herself of often - slow down. When the world is coming at me; when my emotions are being stirred up quickly; when thoughts are bouncing rapidly in my head...slow down. "Conduct yourselves with wisdom...let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person." Colossians 4:5-6. 

When everyone seems to want our attention at the same time; when the telephone rings and the news isn't good; when every news channel on the TV seems to pound uncertainty into the heart and mind, the thoughts and emotions can go from 0-100mph in record time, can't they?! Almost without notice. Proverbs warns us, "...everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty." (21:5) and "Do you see a man who is hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him." (29:20).

Slow down. Aren't those words refreshing. Slow down. These simple words are balm to my soul. They fall in opposition to our culture which screams, Hurry up! React! Don't think, just do it - now! But that is just foolish. The truth is: I don't need to immediately respond to each and every situation. I am given time (whether much or little) to consider my response. Time to lead my heart, mind and emotions. Time to pray, "...pray at all times in the Spirit..." Ephesians 6:18. God is there, and He is ready to take on all our anxieties, because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7).

As a wife and mom, I want to model temperate responses, not impulsive ones, for my family. I want my husband and daughters to rest in knowing that Mom isn't going to go ballistic on them or become frantic and fearful when unsettling news comes or when the lot falls unfavorably. I want to model for them a woman who hopes in God. One who has a gentle and quiet spirit, and whose disposition is calming because she fully trusts in her God in the midst of her circumstances and relies on Him for her strength.

"Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him, the help of my countenance and my God." Psalm 42:11.

So, this morning, I took a moment (with both girls' lips moving at lightening speed) to slow myself down and ask God for the patience, discernment, and sweetness of speech to respond to my children in a way that would point them to the patience and graciousness of God. And then to address the situation at hand in a sober-minded and temperate manner. By my choosing to slow down, my children's hearts and lips slowed down too. "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Proverbs 15:1. I'm thankful that by God's grace I was able to slow down to consider a gentle answer and not just react with a harsh word. 

Will you take the time to slow down today?

Loving with Words


Half of the year has passed, and I'm still striving to pursue love. A love that stretches beyond myself, beyond my own capabilities. Loving with a love that is deeper than my own, "...to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge..." Ephesians 3:19, and then extend it to others.

A very practical way to love others is through my use of words. This is an area that the Lord is teaching me and refining me in right now (and I am definitely still "in progress"). Why, when, and how to use my words...and how my tone is just as important as my choice of words. 

As a parent, this is certainly an area of testing, isn't it? Our words easily fly out of our mouth without being checked at the door. Our tone and volume can escalate in the blink of an eye. And this can occur right after singing praises or praying to God. Why is this? As James so aptly states, "...from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way" (3:10).

I don't want my speech to be marred by ugliness. I want it to be life-giving and refreshing and encouraging. "Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones." Proverbs 16:24. 

I want my words to be fitting to the situation and the hearer, "Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear." Ephesians 4:29. I confess, I am very familiar with this verse, but to my shame, often times my speech does not reflect my familiarity with it. This ought not to be! And I am not fooled into thinking that I'm the only one who struggles with taming my tongue; I am not alone in this battle, "If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body as well...but no one can tame the tongue." James 3:2,8.

So, what ought I to do? How can I speak words of life, joy, peace, and love in my day-to-day life? How can I be better prepared for the times when I am unaware that the temptation to speak otherwise is just one slip of the tongue away? How might my hearers (most often, my husband and children) be recipients of grace through my words? By spending plenty of time with the Word - Jesus! He is the perfect, life-giving, and most holy speaker that ever was or will be! I can learn from Him. I can sit as His feet and allow Him to teach me how to use words purposefully and appropriately, carefully and gracefully. As well as, looking to Him for the discernment to know when it is prudent and beneficial to simply remain silent. I can drench myself in His Word so deeply that, as Sinclair Ferguson describes, "I cannot speak with any other accent." "Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you" so that "with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God." Colossians 3:16. 

What a wonder it would be for the heart of my hearers to relate to my words in the same way that the Psalmist described God's Word, "How sweet are Your words to my taste! Yes, sweeter than honey to my mouth!" Psalm 119:103. May their response be this way because, and only because, my words are adorned with God's own words and it leaves them with the lingering fragrance of His grace and a longing for more of Him. And all this for the glory of my King!

His Word changes my words, because His Word changes my heart. O Lord, help me to love You and others by using my words according to Your purpose and for Your glory.

"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer." Psalm 19:14.

Unexpected Fun

Earlier this week, Corey went to pick up some newly-filled fire extinguishers for work. He took Catelyn along to run the errand. A quick trip to pick up an order turned into a personal tour of the fire station! Woohoo for Catelyn! 







  

4th of July at the Waterhole

Yesterday, we celebrated America's birthday by having a BBQ at a secluded place in the jungle where we swim, explore caves and watch monkeys play and hornbill birds fly. We celebrated our American holiday with other Americans, as well as, Canadians, Australians and Indonesians! Good times! Here's a glimpse into our fun (I can't believe I didn't take a picture of the food!)...

"Come on, get in!"

Catelyn and her Talitha

Corrinne taking pics of all the fun!
 

The guys building up the courage to jump into the cold water!

Watching the monkeys!

"I'm all ready to swim!"

Climbing the rope

"Don't be wimps...it's not THAT cold!"

Finally jumped in.

Um...yeah...it's cold!

Fun at the waterhole!